No one here can know the pain you and your famiy are in at this time, But a strong belief in God above can help. I was once in a situation with my ex-wife as she suffered with great depression that caused her to try to commit susiccide on two different occasions. All I know is God met me at my lowest point in my life and lifted me up. He let me know that things would be okay no matter the outcome if I only trusted him. Things did not work between us as I had prayed for, but my children still have there mother. I also remembered it is not my will but his. I thank him daily for my new wife and newest daughter. I have a picture on my wall at home and a small credit card size one of the same in my wallet as a reminder, the "Footprints In The Sand". He has a plan for your daughter, you may not know it, or just plain and simple hate it right now, but he has one and I guarantee he is walking this same path with you and your family now, not along side you, but carrying all of you through this. We are all his children, he hates to see us suffer as much as we hate to see it. But oh what a strong bunch of people your family will be when Kelly has recovered. I know these words do not make things any better, coming from a person sitting on the other side of a computer, a complete stranger. But know you are not alone in this. He would never leave his child, as you would never abandon Kelly. You are in my prayers.
Doug